A Lesson for Life

 

                                     A Lesson for Life

I have learned a few things and unlearned a few things in my life. I will explain all the things one by one. Some are the best lessons and some are good diversions in life that have taught me how to lead a happy and peaceful life.

I have learned one thing in my life. "How to live a life?". As time passed, I learned the value of self-love. Every day is a battle of good and bad. If you focus on the good happiness grows or if you focus on the bad shit grows.

As we grow older we forget a lot of things, like the situations that had taught us how to lead a life. Life is visible to us in a way you choose to see it. If you choose to see it in a positive way it looks beautiful. If you choose to see it in a negative way it looks ugly.

I will ask you a question, "What is self-love?"

Self Love is the help that we give to ourselves. Yes, what you read is exactly correct. It is a way of understanding ourselves. If you understand yourself then you can help yourself to grow.

If we love ourselves we don't need any validation from others regarding our decisions, happiness, etc. . Similarly we don't need other people to make us happy. We don't need to depend on others to fulfill our needs. Love yourself and treat yourself the way you treat your loved one.

Selflove increases your self-worth. It also increases self-confidence and self-esteem. Self-love is taking care of ourselves and being kind to ourselves.

Be aware of your actions. Invest your energy in good things. Some things that depend on us mean how we choose to live our lives. Being in the present also teaches us a lot. Instead of worrying about the past and thinking about the future, it's better to stay in the present. I simply follow the quote "Stay in the Present it teaches everything to us".

I have been following the technique of "Living in the moment". But I don't know its value in my initial stages. After a lot of disturbances, I realized the value of living in the moment. Similarly, we don't know the value of some things when they are with us, we realize the value of their presence in their absence.

One more thing I learned is to stop judging people because when I started judging people, I was unhappy with everyone including myself. Then I decided not to judge anyone in life because nobody knows what they are going through in their life.

Overthinking this is the biggest problem in everyone's life. Stop thinking about the same problem, again and again, let it go and everything will be ok in the end.

Expectation grows along with the growth of the relationship. It kills affection between people and gives birth to negative situations like anger, mistrust, greed, etc. . The lesson I have learned is 'If you are doing something good to a person do not expect anything in return. Sometimes it breaks the trust between people. It creates doubt in people. It doesn't make you and others happy.

'Be a good person and good things will happen to you' I follow this quote whenever I feel low.