When you are in Love

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                                                       When you are in Love

    Love is the thing that happens in everyone's life. Love is not definable, only experienceable. Someone falls in love in their teenage and someone will fall in their late teens. But falling in love is sure. When we met that one person, we didn't have control over our emotions, thoughts, and actions. The closeness between you guys organically flows.



Your mind and your heart know when you meet that one person in life. Your gut will find the person. Your actions and emotions say a lot more than your words when you are in love with that person. The best situation that explains love is when the person you are in love with hurts you deeply and still, you like him, you want to talk to him. This is called love.



When we meet that one person in life, our heart knows when he/she is in front of us. Your heartbeat increases. You will start to watch him/her on social media. You follow his timing in his/her online presence. You always want to spend time with him/her but you will hide your feelings. You feel jealous when he/she talks with others.



This is the stage where you will grow and where you will destroy yourself. There is a famous saying 'Time heals everything. Everything needs time to heal. People in love realize the value of selfless affection. Then you think about the person in love more than yourself. You care for them. They become your priority. You are putting your time, effort, and energy into that person. Then one thing enters your mind, i.e. 'expectation', which is the first step to destroying every relationship. It is the thing that develops when we love the person unconditionally. When expectations begin, disputes between people also begin.



This is the stage where relationships are going to fade. Be aware of it. Don't let expectations kill your relationship. Be aware of red flags in your relationship. Everything takes time to grow, similarly, love takes time to grow. Have patience and do not expect anything in return.



Have patience and give time. Things will turn out your way. Be positive and stay present. It will teach you everything in life.


 


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